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| Wed, 09-08-2004 - 10:26pm |
I've been with my b/f for around 9 months, I'm having a hard time understanding the state of our relationship. It's semi-long distance, he drives here to see once a week or more which is nice but at the same time it's not all that great because I think it puts some walls up between us because we don't have friends in common or things like that. Anyhow, there has been many changes in my life throughout our relationship, he's having some changes himself like looking for a new job because he's so unhappy with the one hes in now. I'm insecure but I trust him, I don't call him all day or keep tabs on him and neither does he. Sometimes I'm pretty sure of our relationship and other times like now, I feel like there is something wrong. I'm not exactly sure how to approach this. We're not really phone people, and I don't want to write an email to him about this. When we are together I get frustrated because I don't know how to ask him how he's feeling about us. We have good times when we're together but we're both shy about our feelings, our relationship has been growning in many aspects but not in others.
I guess what I'm asking is a few things... what does a guy do when hes working his way out of a relationship with a girl he's said could be 'the one' and how does a shy girl open up and start this topic with the boy she's in love with.
please be gentle
| Thu, 09-09-2004 - 12:15am |
