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what's happening????
| Sat, 01-24-2004 - 11:14am |
I've been dating this guy for 15 months now, totally being with only him. I had dated him a couple of years ago when I was not in a relationship, and we get along really good. I just find him so confusing. There are times when we are so together, and everything seems to fit so perfectly, but I don't know where I stand with him. He has never said "I Love You" or mentioned that he wanted more than a weekend girlfriend. That's what I am to him. Friday and Saturday are our nights to do things together. He calls about everyday and we talk on the phone, but we never talk about us. We are an older couple, he's been married twice and has one child, I am a widow, with three children, all gone except for a 16 year old daughter still at home. He told me that no man could stand to be around two women for 24 hours at a time, and he didn't want to get stranded here if the snow and ice came tonight. This really bothered me, that if he couldn't stand to be here with us, during a storm or whatever, what am I doing with him? Am I being stupid? Thinking he may want to change, and marry one more time. I'm so tired of being alone and not having someone to love and love me back. Any advice will be deeply appreciated. Thanks.

It sounds like the two of you have different relationship goals.
That doesn't sound like tha statement of someone who wants to get married again but noone here can tell you exactly what he is thinking.
You have to find out if the two of you want the same things. Talk to him. If you scare him away then at least you know now and not 6 months from now.