whats up with him? plz reply....
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whats up with him? plz reply....
| Fri, 06-11-2004 - 12:15am |
hey everyone,
my name is michelle and i am 19 female at work my male coworker and I were jokingly hitting each other and he scratched me....I pointed it out to him and told him it hurt, and he kissed his fingers and touched the spot where it hurt...one of the other female coworkers were next to me and looked at me funny when he did that....he is 21 by the way...anyway, we were also talking about how tired we were and he said that he woke up early, and i asked him why and he turned red, and was hesitant to tell me, he said his female friend slept over, and she had to go to work early....so i asked him so so u drove her? and hes like no she just had the alarm set early so it woke him up...we flirt a lot at work, and a few other ppl are sayin that he likes me or w/e...he isnt like this to the other girls, hes nice to them but thats all.. if i smile at him he turns red sometimes and smiles back...he makes fun of me because i started to hang out with my ex boyfriend, even though i tell him that its over and im not getting back with him! he finally stopped teasing me for that...anyway, theres more than that but....my question is a) does he like me, b) if he does then why does he talk about his female friends like that? he told me before theyd be jealous but that they shouldn't worry because hes not goung out w/ them (he mentioned it twice too!) the problem lies here:: one of my coworkers told me him and this other coworker girl were talkin bout me and then she goes "dont u find her annoying?" and he goes "who michelle?" and she goes "yeah" he pauses and goes "yeah, sometimes i just wanna slap her" .. and it realy hurt, i confronted him about it, and he said "yeah i mite have called u annoying, but i mean, u call me annoying" im like "yeah but i say it to ur face and u when i say it im just kidding" and he kept saying sorry, that he doesnt find me annoying..i go yeah if u didnt mean it u wouldnt have said it behind my back, true rite?...but i was mean bout it and i left, then he storms out of there yelling at the employees (he was mad b4 that day but not like this! he was fine w me in there....maybe i upset him??? but then we were leaving i was walkin to my car which was next to his and he started making noises to get my attentoin, and i turned and looked and he was laughing and i unfortunately smiled back.....but anyway told the coworker whom i got this info from and she said that she still thinks he likes me? i dunno, what do u think....two girls say we have a connection...if he found me annoying, he wouldnt be talking to me and talkin bout whats goin on his life, or whatnot, he comes up to me alotta times and just talks, or makes jokes with me, or "fights" with me.. i dunno.... sorry so long,please reply... thanks a lot
-michelle :(
my name is michelle and i am 19 female at work my male coworker and I were jokingly hitting each other and he scratched me....I pointed it out to him and told him it hurt, and he kissed his fingers and touched the spot where it hurt...one of the other female coworkers were next to me and looked at me funny when he did that....he is 21 by the way...anyway, we were also talking about how tired we were and he said that he woke up early, and i asked him why and he turned red, and was hesitant to tell me, he said his female friend slept over, and she had to go to work early....so i asked him so so u drove her? and hes like no she just had the alarm set early so it woke him up...we flirt a lot at work, and a few other ppl are sayin that he likes me or w/e...he isnt like this to the other girls, hes nice to them but thats all.. if i smile at him he turns red sometimes and smiles back...he makes fun of me because i started to hang out with my ex boyfriend, even though i tell him that its over and im not getting back with him! he finally stopped teasing me for that...anyway, theres more than that but....my question is a) does he like me, b) if he does then why does he talk about his female friends like that? he told me before theyd be jealous but that they shouldn't worry because hes not goung out w/ them (he mentioned it twice too!) the problem lies here:: one of my coworkers told me him and this other coworker girl were talkin bout me and then she goes "dont u find her annoying?" and he goes "who michelle?" and she goes "yeah" he pauses and goes "yeah, sometimes i just wanna slap her" .. and it realy hurt, i confronted him about it, and he said "yeah i mite have called u annoying, but i mean, u call me annoying" im like "yeah but i say it to ur face and u when i say it im just kidding" and he kept saying sorry, that he doesnt find me annoying..i go yeah if u didnt mean it u wouldnt have said it behind my back, true rite?...but i was mean bout it and i left, then he storms out of there yelling at the employees (he was mad b4 that day but not like this! he was fine w me in there....maybe i upset him??? but then we were leaving i was walkin to my car which was next to his and he started making noises to get my attentoin, and i turned and looked and he was laughing and i unfortunately smiled back.....but anyway told the coworker whom i got this info from and she said that she still thinks he likes me? i dunno, what do u think....two girls say we have a connection...if he found me annoying, he wouldnt be talking to me and talkin bout whats goin on his life, or whatnot, he comes up to me alotta times and just talks, or makes jokes with me, or "fights" with me.. i dunno.... sorry so long,please reply... thanks a lot
-michelle :(

He's seeing someone, even if it's just for sex, that means he's UNAVAILALBE for a relationship. But he thinks it's safe to flirt and tease you, his way of 'testing the waters' to see if you are interested. However, he's still got a lot of growing up to do... so if you don't want 'just sex' steer clear of the flirting. I'd be willing to bet the girl that stays over with him thinks they have more of a relationship than just sex.
Carrie