whats his deal?
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whats his deal?
| Wed, 03-31-2004 - 8:58pm |
My boyfriend and I recently broke up, but I feel like giving the relationship another shot. I stopped by his place a few days ago(sunday)to talk, but he was with friends and in a hurry, so in the short amount of time I told him that I wanted to get back together and he said " i dont know", so I told him to give me a call and he said he would. I think its a good sign that he didnt say he was completely done, but now I'm left not knowing what hes thinking. How long should I wait for him to call, or will he call? I dont really want to stop by again and seem desperate, but dont feel like waiting forever for him to make up his mind. Need some advice here , or some analysis on what he might be thinking....thanks everyone. Have a great day :)

Of course no one knows what he's thinking, least of all you. Not only that, there's no way to know, other than to see how he acts. If he calls, then he's interested. If he doesn't, he's not. I wouldn't hang around hoping and waiting for this call either. It's a long shot. There's no reason to put yourself on a string, fantasyzing and hoping that it will work out. Usually, if a guy is truly interested and wants to resume, he makes a move. Don't chase him. You will simply lose your own self respect and set up an uncomfortable situation. If you do not hear from him in a short while, take a deep breath and move on. Read my book Zen And the Art of Falling In Love, for wonderful exercises and information about relationships, your Self, your life and how to feel loving and loved all the time.
Best wishes.
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