What's right and What's wrong?

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Registered: 03-03-2004
What's right and What's wrong?
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Sat, 03-06-2004 - 12:21am
I met my boyfriend 2 years ago... well its a long story So I'll make it short. About a year ago, he finally admitted he still had feelings for his X girlfriend.. and it broke my heart. I don't know if I'm overreacting. About 6 months before he told me the truth, I kept telling him that I knew he still had feelings for his X. He kept lying to me and said he didn't. And I also found out from a friend that his biggest crush is his X gf about one and a half years ago. And he also tried to talk to her again and stuff. I feel so broken and it really bothers me. What should I do? Is what I'm feeling wrong? In the summer of 2003, I got revengeful and told him I needed time to myself and then I went out with someone else. I know I was wrong for doing that. After I told him, we got back together again. But lately, he says his feelings for his X gf is gone now... I don't know if he's lying or not... I love him a lot. I don't know if he's just saying that... he says he lied to me because he didn't want to loose me. I'm so confused! I don't know what to do... Anybody have any suggestions? Thanks.
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Registered: 05-20-2003
Sat, 03-06-2004 - 9:40am
Is his ex around? Is she single and does she want to get back with him?
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Registered: 02-20-2004
Mon, 03-08-2004 - 10:12am
If she is still in the picture for him, then you should move on because it seems that it is going to take him him a while to get past his ex and you don't want to be around to worry constantly - I know what that feels like and it is no fun when you start playing detective and constantly comparing yourself - it will be nothing but heartache. If she is no longer in the picture, then you will just have to realize that this is something we all face - that our SO will all have pasts, and past relationships with people they may have loved and cared for or who have broken their hearts - just like we have. It is a way of life.

 

Tiffany

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Registered: 03-03-2004
Wed, 03-10-2004 - 9:00pm
Yes. I live soo soo far away from him. And his x lives on his road... And he still keeps all the pictures she gave to him while they were going out.. but he said he keeps it in a box with all the other girl pictures he has like his friends or something... And he says he never looks at it.