What's wrong!?!?!?!
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What's wrong!?!?!?!
| Mon, 09-13-2004 - 3:45pm |
Here is my problem... I've been with my boyfriend for over a year and sex was always great between us. We were perfect together. But, lately things have really sucked. For some reason I haven't even had the desire and even when I do, the minute we start I don't want to anymore. I think part of it is because I know if I want to have sex, I'll have to give him head. He can't get hard otherwise, I don't know what's wrong because he didn't used to have that problem. It just seems like neither one of us wants to please the other person anymore and it we always end up in an argument about who should do what this time around. Is this normal? What is going on with us? I just want things to be how they were before.
I think another reason that could be affecting this aspect in our relationship is the fact he is moving two hours away from me to go to school. It's really been stressing me out becaues I've never been in a long distance relationship and fail to see how it is going to work.

It's just a thought...but since there's going to be a 2-hour drive ahead for each of you, maybe this is the "prelude" to an ending?
Since you both have been 'doing the same stuff' together for a year, I'll bet you've gotten bored by the 'same old same old' routine? .
Try to remember one thing though...please???
NO RELATIONSHIP stays the same! Changes happen the moment you learn your partner's habits, likes, dislikes, mood-swings, etc. You can STILL LOVE HIM very much, but things start to get stale if one half (or both halves) of a couple stops "working" at making their relationship work!!!
Sure sounds like this is happening to the 2 of you?
Pianoguy