What's wrong here?
Find a Conversation
What's wrong here?
| Tue, 08-03-2004 - 1:41pm |
So I met this guy and things were going well. We had a lot in common and i thought that things could possubly go some place. BUt one night i asked him his opinion of the whole thing and he told me there was no chance for a long term relationship because of my weight. (now i'm not fat, but i will def admit i'm not a perfect weight either). He continues to tell me that he could love me, but the weight stopped all chances. He was also telling me about how he thinks i'm perfect and stuff. I know i should just move on, but i just don't know what to think right now. help?

From one musician to another....are YOU happy with your appearance?
Don't rely on the judgements or promises of others, but ask yourself (honestly) if shedding a few pounds would make you feel better?
If the man you're seeing has an issue with your weight...you might want to ask him (NOW) if there's anything else (that you have) that bothers him? It's a pretty good indicator of where your relationship is headed!
Pianoguy
This guy does not sound like somebody who would appreciate you and love you - for you. Your weight should not be an issue to his feelings towards you, he sounds hollow and does not sound like a person who will make you happy and secure, before things go anywhere else..just move on, and soon someone who will appreciate all your beautiful curves will come on his way:)
Tearyangel