whats your thoughts

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Registered: 04-12-2007
whats your thoughts
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Sun, 04-15-2007 - 10:28pm


my husband left 1 week ago and I am devistated. My husband located me on line Friday night. We chit chated back and forth. I didn't do any begging or anything. He said that he looked for me earlier but I wasn't on and what did I do all day. So, this is where I blew it....I asked him when he was planning to get some more of his stuff (errrr)he said next week while I was at work so it would be easier on both of us. I asked about lawyers and he didn't know why we needed any. He says they just create anger and stuff. So later in the IM conversation he asks me if I wanted to play an on line game. So we do for about 45 minutes. We were still chatting and joking around. Thank goodness he couldn't see that I was in tears. I have done a lot of reading...so I say, I hope we can be still be friends after all of this and that we were probably meant to be friends instead of married. He says,y do you say that? I don't respond. Then we chat about nothing for a few minutes. Now back up a few days, in one of my begging letters that I e mailed him, I ended by saying hell we might even bump into each other in Vegas and fall in love all over again and start over. I could still slap myself for that letter. So back to last night, we end the converstation and he says goodnight "Cookie" (pet name) and says....maybe we will bump into each other Vegas sometime and start over. Why the mixed messages??????? I walk away from the computer. he signs off, then back on and im's me again about 5 minutes later and says r u there? waits a few minutes, then says, OK then....have a good night.

Am I getting my hopes up over nothing? I have made no contact today and I believe he went camping

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Mon, 04-16-2007 - 10:01pm

Hi verysadtoday,


It's only been a week, therefore the emotions are going to run hot and cold.

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Registered: 09-30-2005
Tue, 04-17-2007 - 1:45pm
Since the two of you are still communicating and seem to be on good terms at this point, I think you should tell him that he is sending you mixed signals and confusing you and that you want to make sure this is really what he wants.

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