Where do i start

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Registered: 03-23-2004
Where do i start
Mon, 05-10-2004 - 5:00pm
Hi i need some help and im not sure if im posting it in the right discussion thread.

I am 40 and i have been with my partner now for 4 years, we trully love each other and have a great relationship apart from one thing that bothers my partner a lot. He says I exaggerate a lot, i tend to make things look better than they are and that i dont need to do this as he loves me just as i am. Its now getting to the point of destroying our relationship as he feels hes losing the trust as he cant always belive what i say anymore and he feels he has to seive thro the things i say to get to the truth. I didnt realise i was doing this and now he has pointed it out he is right. But how do i stop my self doing this and why am i doing this. I am very confused and feel im gonna lose a very special relationship because of it. Thanks for listening.

sapphire