where is the line?

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Registered: 06-14-2004
where is the line?
Mon, 06-14-2004 - 5:27pm
My husband and I have been together for 9 years. I had sexual experiences before I met him - he hardly had any. I stopped for him. He has done some really outrageous things since we've been together, but has flown off the handle at any little thing I do. It is ok for him and not for me. he says I need to be more tolerant and that these things (lying about strippers, masterbating in bed while I'm right there) are not bad. I asked him to at least share and talk with me, so it can be a together experience. He says he is too emabarassed. It has increased over the years, and now I am heartbroken. It seems instead of stepping over the line, he's re-drawing it to suit his moods/desires. But, it is not the same for me. He feels it is my issue and I just need to accept it. Help! I am also pregnant with our third child and can't sleep with fears and worries.