Where is my husband??
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Where is my husband??
| Thu, 07-08-2004 - 12:38am |
I have been married for 4 years and am a stay at home mom to a 4 month old. My husband works long hours and comes home fairly tired. Our evenings leave much to be desired. I make dinner, we eat it in front of the TV and then he basically spends all his time on the computer working while I am taking care of the baby, watching TV or reading. He no longer is affectionate with me and we barely say two words to each other. When it comes time to sleep we both turn our own ways and there is zero body contact or verbal communication like "good night". I can't remember the last time he said he loved me or bought me flowers. I take care of the whole household everyday and need to be babied myself once and a while and I wish my husband could see that. Our relationship is so dry and non-existent. I have cried silently at night b/c I feel so desperate and can't seem to bring myself to talk to him as he seems like he could care less. Just tonight he went to happy hour to hang out with work friends and it seems so inappropriate b/c he barely sees me or the baby. All he did when he got home (at 10 PM) was eat some pizza and go to bed. It also has occured to me that he might be having an affair. I checked his email and there are no signs of it there. What should I do....confront him with all these problems?? I need help...my marriage is dying.

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My best to you.
Carrie
May the force be with you.
C