whether my husband is doing wrong??

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-15-2007
whether my husband is doing wrong??
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Thu, 03-15-2007 - 1:38pm
my husband who is 38 years kisses and hugs a girl of 14 years whom he knows since child. They do not do it in front of me. i have watched them doing this on various occasion without their knowldge. This girl acts very childishly and pretends innocence or may she is innocent. He gives her gifts very often and talks to her on phone. Her parents think my husband is very fond of her so he is showing her with gift but they don't know about his kissing and hugging. i feel objectionable as he kisses her on mouth and secretly. please advice what i should do?? i also have one year child. i have spoken to him about this but he say he is just being affectionate and he treats her as his child. and when i tell him i want to talk to the girl he becomes very aggressive.
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-30-2005
Thu, 03-15-2007 - 2:15pm
Wait a minute. If I read your post correctly he is kissing on the mouth, hugging, and giving gifts to a 14 year old child? This is wrong, wrong, wrong. Of course he doesn't want you to talk to her. This is child molestion. I would seriously considering telling her parents everything and also telling the police.
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-19-2002
Thu, 03-15-2007 - 3:05pm
RED FLAG! RED FLAG!
I cannot stress enough how inappropriate his behavior is. It's going to be hard to deal with the aftermath, but you have to talk to the girl's parents.
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
Thu, 03-15-2007 - 3:12pm

Hi neelu,


::i feel objectionable as he kisses her on mouth and secretly.


This is not good.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-31-2003
Thu, 03-15-2007 - 3:36pm

Hi neelu2007, I'm sorry to hear you're dealing with this upsetting and difficult situation.