Who do I choose??

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Registered: 10-01-2004
Who do I choose??
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Fri, 10-01-2004 - 12:50am
There are two men in my life. Justin is my current boyfriend and he has even proposed to me. He is a sweet man but my heart belongs to another man - Nathan. Nathan is the love of my life. Justin knows that I have feelings still for Nathan and he seems to be ok with that. Nathan knows that I have feelings for him and I am certain that he has feelings for me as well. However, I have to tried to break it off with Justin a few times by I am literly drawn to him. My entire family dislikes Justin and they like Nathan. I just can't seem to let Justin go. But, I am in love with Nathan. I glow when I am with him, talk to him, and even think about him. Nathan has had my heart for two years and I started dating Justin back in June of this year. What should I do? I am literly torn. I know that someone is going to get hurt and that's what makes it harder. Please... any advice is appreciated.
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Registered: 09-26-2003
Fri, 10-01-2004 - 8:30am

What is "drawing" you to this guy to make your decsion so difficult?? It sounds like you are truly happy with Nathan, so what gives??


Spill it!!:)


 

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Registered: 08-04-2003
Fri, 10-01-2004 - 1:02pm
I agree with cl-marsexpert and want to know what draws you to Justin? Maybe you like upsetting your parents? Maybe you want to get a 'reaction' out of Nathan? Maybe you really aren't 'in love' with either of them?


Edited 10/1/2004 1:02 pm ET ET by itwinflame


Carrie

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Fri, 10-01-2004 - 2:06pm

If Nathan has had your heart for two years, why did you start dating Justin? This is a big question that you need to answer. It seems clear that you do not have real understanding of your relationship with Justin, why you are in it and why you can't leave it, though you seem to want to. Sometimes