Who's family for Turkey Day??

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Registered: 09-11-2006
Who's family for Turkey Day??
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Mon, 11-19-2007 - 12:00am
I haven't posted in a while but I feel i will be here more often!! Anyway....about 7 weeks ago my boyfriend of 9 months with whom I bought a house with last month (too soon??) asked about our plans for turkey day...We both are supposed to work that day but were able to get the day off....he suggested we go to his families get together for two nights
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Registered: 09-30-2005
Mon, 11-19-2007 - 10:57am

Welcome back quartz2006,


Wow. His reaction to this is a little extreme to say the least. Especially since he had previously told you that he would be okay with you going to see your family on Thanksgiving. Does he have anger management isssues? It sounds like he might. Has he ever behaved liked this before?

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iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
Mon, 11-19-2007 - 12:27pm

Hi quartz2006,


His reaction is extreme after telling you it was ok.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-03-2006
Mon, 11-19-2007 - 12:49pm

Maybe

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-11-2006
Mon, 11-19-2007 - 1:39pm

He has acted like this before.....I think he does have anger management problems to say the least.

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-30-2005
Mon, 11-19-2007 - 1:55pm

I do think you need to get out of this relationship. Sounds like he also has drinking problems. There is also the potential that he could be violent.


You deserve better and you know it. I had an ex that threatened to hit me once. I stayed the night at a friends that night and then had a bag packed in case I needed to leave him a hurry. I left him a couple of weeks later.

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