Why??

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Registered: 09-28-2007
Why??
3
Sat, 09-29-2007 - 3:00pm
I need to figure out why I keep doing things that I know hurt my boyfriend. All I want to do is take our relationship to the next level and become his wife, but I have and attitude that comes out and pushes him away. I think my anger comes from my thoughts of the bad times in the past, and when something reminds me of a time that once was, my anger is triggered. I need to know how to leave the past in the past and move on in my life. I think I have trouble leaving the past alone because I do not know how to get over it. I do not know how to get over it because I've never really gotten over anything in the past before, at least nothing that was extremely painful or significant. I still cannot talk about, think about, be reminded of, or see my mother and her pictures without crying hysterically immediately. I was only six and I do not know how to get through that pain. I think it is affecting my relationship. Please help I just want the father of my son to be my husband, the same way he wants me to be his wife. I need advice on how accept the pain and get over bad experiences.
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Registered: 12-11-2006
In reply to: prettymissmami
Sat, 09-29-2007 - 3:02pm
Did you read our responses to your other post?
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Registered: 02-05-2007
In reply to: prettymissmami
Sat, 09-29-2007 - 6:51pm

prettymissmami,


Here's your previous post problems....

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Registered: 09-30-2005
In reply to: prettymissmami
Mon, 10-01-2007 - 3:13pm
I really think you would benefit greatly from individual counseling. Please look into it for the sake of your son.
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