why?

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-19-2004
why?
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Thu, 08-19-2004 - 12:45am
I've been living with my partner for 3 months now and since I have moved in he has been coming home very late from work. He was doing it even before I moved in when I was living in another state but now that I live here with him it has been very hard for me to get used to the fact the he come home very late sometimes after midnight hours and I don't like it and I can't deal with it anymore. I tell him I get upset about him coming home late but he says he has alot of work to do. his job is a 9-5 job but he stay really really late. what am I supposed to do??? he says once he gets this new job soon it won't be like this with him coming home late. I know who ever reads this may think maybe hes cheating but i don't know why??? what should I do or say???
iVillage Member
Registered: 06-03-2004
In reply to: rita1982
Thu, 08-19-2004 - 10:33am
I dan't really say he's cheating on you, but first of all what kind of job does he have ?

I work at a GM dealership and some of our mechanics who re married stay there untill 12-2am

so he might very well actually be busy working. Has he ever cheated on you before? mabey he's just adjusting to you moveing in with him. I know s much as I loved my ex when I lived with her I still needed some "me" time so I would sit down at the sshop and wash my car or what ever I decided to do that night, but I always came home to her.

hopefuly I was some help

Take care

Opsicle

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Registered: 07-20-2004
In reply to: rita1982
Thu, 08-19-2004 - 10:35am
Coming home after midnight is wierd. If he dosen't own the company, there is no reason he should be working that hard. Are you able to call him at the office after hours? What does he do?