Why am I so jealous?

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Registered: 05-26-2003
Why am I so jealous?
Thu, 04-29-2004 - 3:03pm
I am with my partner for 4 years and we just had a baby son 3 months ago. I have also a 5 year old from a previous relationship who calls him Daddy (as far as we are all concerned he IS her Daddy). My problem is that I am jealous of his exs. He has a great job and used to work abroad in exotic countries and had all these fabulous women as girlfriends ( I've seen the pictures of his travels) and generally had a ball. Since settling at home in Ireland he met me and to be honest I can't see how I even remotely compare. He can't understand why I feel like this but it eats me up inside and I'm afraid my insecurities are going to put a strain on the relationship. HELP