why bad boy wants to date a good girl?

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Registered: 04-25-2008
why bad boy wants to date a good girl?
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Sat, 05-03-2008 - 5:43am

I am friends with a ' bad boy' ( i am not a baddy though!) who is desperately chasing a girl who happens to be a nice girl.Bad in a way that he is a typical flirt, macho kinda,sleeps around, easy drinker,loud,extrovert ,has dated many girls normally hot.Now, this girl is nothing his 'type'.All of us are trying our level best to ' save' the girl from him by not saying anything to her but using our ways to keep him away from her.but to no avail.now we have stopped but he is on job.

Why is choosing a next-door girl.we all are very surprised.

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Registered: 10-03-2007
Sat, 05-03-2008 - 6:53am

For the thrill of it ? Maybe for a change?

I have seen this as well but not very sure what you can do to 'save' the girl.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Sat, 05-03-2008 - 1:33pm

Of course no one knows exactly why he is chasing after her. Perhaps the challenge excites him? Perhaps he genuinely likes her and deep down may want to change his way? But this is all speculation. You cannot change his behavior. I can understand your wanting to warn the girl. Just keep an eye on the situation. If you see that he is playing games with her, dating others while he's with her, or anything else that might he truly hurtful to her,

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Registered: 02-20-2007
Sat, 05-03-2008 - 10:16pm
Because she is probably challenging to him in a way that the other women he's been with have not been able to compare. He probably enjoys the chase more than anything.