why cant i get a clear signal?????

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Registered: 09-01-2004
why cant i get a clear signal?????
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Wed, 09-01-2004 - 4:57pm
I have been seeing this great ,well he seems great, guy but the thing is when we are not togheter then he seems so distant, but when we are together we have the best time and he never wants me to leave. He is not the type to express alot of emothin so i dont know if he just likes having me aroung because he is lonely or if he is really interested in me, please help with any comments or suggestions.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 09-01-2004 - 5:04pm
nakiasw1974...

If a woman's presence isn't a major priority in a man's life, why should you assume this man can't survive with you?

Granted...when you are close by...you represent a form of security that he probably didn't realize was possible. But there are some of us who can be "just as secure alone!"

If you think you can give yourself a 2 or 3 week break from this man...you're gonna see his "true colors"....or wake him up to the fact that his life is EMPTY without you?

Here's hoping it's the 2nd option?

Pianoguy

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 09-01-2004 - 10:29pm
Sometimes women search for signals so much that they miss the true facts. The fact is that you are not his #1 priority 7 x 24 x 365. He has other things in his life to attend to and does so when you are apart. This is perfectly normal. Men rarely can be "emotionally-on" at all times either. We need some downtime to recharge our emotional batteries.

Appreciate the time he is with you and respect the time that he devotes to other important things in his life. If he dedicated 100% of his time to you, he would be extremely clingy and needy. Is that something you would prefer as you search for a clear signal?