why did he break up with me

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Registered: 08-12-2003
why did he break up with me
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Thu, 03-04-2004 - 6:41am
My boyfriend and I had been going out for over a year in a long distance relationship. Recently he ended it out of the blue saying that he felt more like a friend to me than anything else. What do you think happened??
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Registered: 06-18-2003
Thu, 03-04-2004 - 6:57am
I think it is tough being in a long distance relaionship. You know the saying "Absence makes the heart grow fonder" Ok, well, I disagree with that to a certain extent. If you spend too much time apart the closeness and bond of a relationship disappears. Its more than likely nothing you did that caused this. People just change over time. Maybe the distance in general was making him unhappy. And he realized that he cares about you enough to let you be happy with someone closer. At least he still wants to be friends. Who knows he may come back someday and want to rekindle what you had.


-Janelle

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