Why do I feel guilty for breaking up?
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|Wed, 02-19-2014 - 9:29am|
Some of you may have read my previous posts. My live in BF and I broke up after 2.5 years. We didn't get along and were opposites. He moved out of my house last October. Now he wants to get back together. His house is over 2hours away. HE use to live with me during the week and we would go to his lake house on the weekends. He only gave me $300 towards expensand plus groceries. He skiis and goes camping with his friends. I don't. I like ballroom dancing but had to give that up as he doesn't dance. Whenever we got together with his friends I was always left out of the conversation and felt left out
He is retiring the end of march and wants me to retire with him we would live at his lake house. There nothing to do up theRe the winters are harsh No shopping. No health clubs. Nothing. He works in his cellar all day on woodworking and I would have to entertain myself all day. I would miss seeing my kids. Worst of all my college age son doesn't want to live there either as there is no jobb opportunities
I am much happier now. I go to concerts. I see my children and friends. I go dancing and enjoying life. So why do I feel so guilty for not getting back with him? A sort of sense of obligation? I know if I sat at the lake house during the winter day inNAND day out I would go nuts. Am I wrong for feeling guilty? After all he left me
Thanks for listening and yor thoughts