Why Do I Think This Way?
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Why Do I Think This Way?
| Tue, 09-07-2004 - 8:35pm |
Well my problem is mostly common but I do need advise you see I just got out of a relationship and now I started going out with this other man and it's only been a month so far I do have strong feelings for him but I don't feel as if he loves me, every night he goes out with his friends or cousins coming till 2 or 3 am and of course I know he's not doing anything because I find out from his friends and cousins but I still feel like he doesn't care is it because he don't spend time with me? Or is it just the beginning feelings of a relationship??? HELPPPPPPPP!!!
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| Tue, 09-07-2004 - 11:04pm |
If you are having any doubts, especially so soon in the relationship - I would definitely think that it is time to reevaluate things. Have you tried talking to him? Going out partying with friends/family is something common that we all enjoy, but when it is too frequent it may not be a good thing. My opinion with guys like this is that they don't ever change, and if they do - it takes a long time for them to mature. My advice to you would be to talk with your boyfriend and tell him how you feeling, tell him that you are looking for something serious, not someone he can have as a girlfriend to his convenience. Hope that helps : )
| Tue, 09-07-2004 - 11:38pm |
Hello- Looks like you are going too fast missy! Emergency sirins are sounding. Love is something that takes a long time to build. You know its love when youve worked through every issue in the dictionary and could both still look at eachother with a smile and say Im okay with the way you smell early in the morning- the way you make those anoying sounds when you snore- Im okay with washing the streaks from your underware- now thats love! You dont want love yet- the best part is early love- called INFATUATION. People are usually infatuated for atleast one to two years until the honey moon stage wears off then you can determine for yourself if it love- so dont rush it! People tend to rush relationships when they feel fear of loosing the the person they are starting out with. Its time you start going out, meeting people, having fun because if he knows you are there waiting for him- a man or woman will walk all over that person because they know they can. Be the smart one not the out smarted. If you are out having your own fun, he will know this one isnt waiting around and whats good for the goose is good for the gander.
