Why do women keep hanging around?
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Why do women keep hanging around?
| Wed, 05-26-2004 - 10:27pm |
is it harder for women to get over a man, after she's been dumped? Why do you hang around the same vicinity? How will you get over the man, if you continue to see him (not work related)When you decide to move on, why not cut off all contact? (phone,pager,email,visual etc...) Isnt that the way its suppose to work?How can u move on, if you visually continue to see the x? Are you hoping to get back with the x?
You women are weird creatures lol
You women are weird creatures lol

If she's hanging around where you are - bt she has business of her own there or people to see there - it's that she is totally ad completely over you that eables her to do without flinching or twitchig (internally, of course).
You're thinking that she's hanging around "because of you"...when in reality she might be hanging around "despite the fact that you're there and she has no positive view of you"...or "she's doesn't really care that you're there".
From your previous post and your description of your behavior.....I think she's knows that you're there, and that you're struggling every second with her presence. In which case...she's just taunting you.
She doesn't care that you want her back, and she doesn't want you back...she just likes to make you sweat with her presence.
Erin
quickblade14@hotmail.com
Or is she still hanging out where she always has and not changing her routine regardless of your presense. Maybe she is so over you that it doesn't matter if you are there.
I never cheated on her. I even showed her my home and cell phone bills for proof, but she refused too. I cooked for her. I gave her 1 hour massage sessions 4-5 days a week. I was the most affectionate guy in her life ever. She trusted me but not at first. She has been cheated on numerous times. I taught her how to rider a sportbike. She scared me a while back, because she talked about kids, buying a house etc..... I talked about it with her, but wasnt totally against it. I told her, when i find the right lady, then yeah
Im the first guy that has my life straight as compared to all the frat boys she's dated. I have 3 cars, my own place, a sportbike. An excellent paying job, i have no baggage, no kids, never married. My head is on straight. I have met all my goals i have set in life. I fine dined this chic. Total gentlemen too her, to later find out she ripped my heart out. Im confident,independent,respectful,funny and an all around awesome guy. Too top it off, im SEXY as hell. She has accused me of being a player based on my status many many many times. She feels i can get any girl i want. I was with her, and only her the whole time. Now, im not mr nice guy. I was there when she needed me, but when she does me wrong, i'll put my foot down, and let her know. She has respected me for that. I know now, she's lost all respect for me, but i dont care, being the reason she cheated on me
I don't think she wants you back...I think she likes jerking your chain because as long as your world revolves around her and why she does what she does - you stay in a state of insecurity and confusion. I think she's getting her desired result.
Erin
quickblade14@hotmail.com
Erin
quickblade14@hotmail.com
best wishes...sweetnopichick