why does he still have her photos

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-04-2007
why does he still have her photos
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Tue, 12-04-2007 - 11:25am
My boyfriend of two years, he has lived in my house for 18 months and moved out of his,
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-30-2005
Tue, 12-04-2007 - 11:29am

Welcome to the board goddess_orangehead,


If it had just been the pictures in the cupboards, I would have said it wasn't a problem. However, since they are still in contact and she still comes by I think there is an issue here. He needs to be clear with her and set some boundaries. I don't blame you for being upset.

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Registered: 02-20-2007
Tue, 12-04-2007 - 11:47am

He still has them because they're a part of his history, and a part of who he is.

I'm a little concerned about their contact, but it depends; have you told him how it makes you feel that she still comes over? Have they always been in contact like this since you started dating?

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-04-2007
Tue, 12-04-2007 - 12:00pm

I agree they are part of his history but they don't have to be in my eyeline-yes of course

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
Tue, 12-04-2007 - 1:11pm

Welcome to the board goddess_orangehead,


While the photos are

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-04-2007
Wed, 12-05-2007 - 8:06am

You are quite right about him loving it, at first, as it validated their relationship.

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-12-2005
Wed, 12-05-2007 - 12:42pm

Whoa, wait

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