Why is everything so hard?
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Why is everything so hard?
| Tue, 07-17-2007 - 5:49pm |
Why is everything so hard? Me and my boyfriend have been together for about 3years. Our 4 year anniversirey is on Sept. 14. I love him with all of my everything. We had been separted before, but this one is really hard. I can't stop crying! Anyway, when I was pregant with our first child,he was telling me that he just hired two people. And I said what are they names? And he didn't know one of the girls name but he told me the other one was named Ashley. When I heard her name, I didn't like her. But, then everything started to go wrong. I was having complications with the baby, and he started to change. After that, I lost my first child. He was sad, but then he act like he didn't even care. Then, Ashley's aqpartment got flooded.And he asked me could he call her? And being nice I said yeah? Then everytime he would come over my house he would spend all of his time texting her. And he would go into my bedroom to call this girl. Anyway, it was a rumor started about some saw them in there department kissing and huging. And I really felt low.Then he asked me for a break.

Welcome to the baord crymeariver2007,
Sorry for the loss of your baby.
He's been having at least an emotional affair with her - calling her after the flood, texting her and calling her from your place.
this isn't a break....he broke up with you to be with her.
that is why this one is hard - it is real and beyond your control. he doesn't want you anymore. that is difficult for anyone's ego to accept.
time for you to start to accept it as a real break up this time and move on. really, even if he decides he wants you over her - how could you ever trust him again.
it's over. sorry for your pain.
Thanks,
crymeariver2007
P.S do have any questions for me?
no questions...just a comment:
he doesn't want to be with you. people do what they want to do. he wants to be with her.
also, please focus on yourself and your life...not his and his relationship problems.
Please stop making poor choices. Stop having sex and getting pregnant with this man. Stop giving him advice about other girls. Stop talking to him.
Figure out why your self esteem is so low that you think you deserve this.