Why is this happening

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Registered: 06-28-2004
Why is this happening
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Mon, 06-28-2004 - 2:06am
I am currently engaged to a great man, I love him with all my heart, but I'm also in Love with my ex. and I am envolved with another guy so this makes tripple trouble for me!!! I really want to be with the guy i'm engaged to but, he works off shore which makes it hard on me because I get very lonely. My ex just came back in to the picture about 2 weeks ago, and we hit it off right then and there. I guess we never officialy said our goodbyes. The other guy I'm envolved with came in to the picture when me and the guy i'm engaged to broke up a couple of months ago. He knows that we are back together but, it's like we can't stop seeing each other I'm very confused please someone HELP
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Registered: 06-03-2004
Mon, 06-28-2004 - 1:09pm
I'm sorry but that is just wrong, you need to deside who you want be with. If your engaged to one guy and seeing two others you obviously have no self controll nor do you have any respect for any one else involved. again I'm sorry but I've been cheated on by every one of my g/f's so yeah I get a little biter when I hear bull sh!t like this.

but it is your choice and I would figure it out soon before all three guys find out and you loose all of them.
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Registered: 08-04-2003
Mon, 06-28-2004 - 1:37pm
Your question - Why is this happening? Well, there are lots of reasons. Your values justify your choices, actions, decisions and behavior. I would guess that you have trouble being alone, don't know yourself well (what motivates you, what makes you tick) and you like the attention of these men. You are not ready for a long-term commitment. Hopefully, you will break off your engagement and just date until you understand yourself better.


Carrie

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Registered: 05-20-2003
Mon, 06-28-2004 - 1:48pm
It is happening because you let it and you choose it. It is time to do yoru fiance a favor and break off the engagement. He deserves a woman who loves him and proves it everyday.