Why is it always his way!

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Registered: 11-30-2007
Why is it always his way!
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Fri, 11-30-2007 - 2:40pm
I have been with my boyfriend for almost two years. We live together.

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Registered: 03-05-2007
Sat, 12-01-2007 - 1:18pm

What am I doing? Unfortunately nothing productive. I have gotten into the habit of being the one to come around, because I don't like the discord. So, i always end up backing down. The last week or so I have finally snapped and I have no interest in backing down anymore.
I have cried constantly, been depressed and miserable, lost weight, etc because of this selfish jerk for too long. I hope I am strong enough to leave and you too. I don't tell anyone but my best friend what he is like, because im too embarrassed. SHe thinks i should leave him, yes. I feel for you so much. It hurts so much. I am thinking i'm going to start looking for a new job in order to relocate. I don't want to waste my life living with a dictator that doesn't appreciate anything i do. I woke up this morning feeling miserable that I have to live with this man, our weekend ruined becssue he is mad at me. He is mad that I don't just do everything and not complain. I think he moved in with me to have me take care of everything. He is very critical just like yours. I'm afraid to say that I think these men have many twins. I got the same reponse to counsleing as you. Well, that proves where their priorities are. Counseling would mean they would have to admit to an outsider, a professional that they are jerks. They would have to make a change. Geez, what do you think makes them so sick??

That poster that said your boyfriend is an ass is correct. so is mine.
Do you think you could leave him? Or are you still crazy about the man you thought he was?

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-30-2007
Sat, 12-01-2007 - 1:46pm
I took a walk this morning with my dog, racking my brain what to do.
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Registered: 10-21-2004
Sat, 12-01-2007 - 9:15pm

The long and the short of it is:

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Registered: 10-21-2004
Sat, 12-01-2007 - 9:31pm

<< My company wants me to move from California to Alabama.

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Registered: 08-09-2007
Mon, 12-03-2007 - 1:47pm

I have been in this sinking ship. It's hard to get out, except...it's really not. The day after you've left you will not miss these men. I swear.


These men do not love you; they only love themselves. They love controlling you. (Incidentally, he made you quit your job so it would be harder to leave him) Do you really love him? REALLY? Ask yourself why. Because he was sweet, and brought you little presents and complimented in the first 6 months. You love how you're afraid to do anything that upsets

baby growth

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