Why would he kiss me?

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Registered: 09-01-2008
Why would he kiss me?
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Mon, 09-01-2008 - 4:07pm

Ok, I was dating this man for around 11 months and he broke up with me because he said that he didn't want a serious relationship and he thought that I would want more and end up leaving him anyway, so we did. Well, we continue to talk and see eachother daily, although there is no physical connection with us other than a hug when we say goodbye. I must say that I am the one that usually initiates the dates, I still talk to him like we are together and he seems not to have a problem with that. I will tell him that I miss him and he will say you want to go to dinner and movie or I will ask when we can spend time together. Well, this weekend I called him and left him a message on his cell and said that I was going to be in the area Friday night and to

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Registered: 05-24-2008
Tue, 09-02-2008 - 1:43am
he kissed you because he was attracted to you.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Tue, 09-02-2008 - 12:40pm

It sounds as though this relationship is unsettling, unbalanced and not healthy for you now. You can't go on and on wondering whether or not things are going to go back to what they were. He has been behaving as though you were a "friend", not a romantic interest and then the kiss. Perhaps he did it to keep you on the string, perhaps it was just the feeling of a moment. You cannot know for sure.

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Tue, 09-02-2008 - 1:19pm

Hi justme2222,


I replied to your post on the other board. I just wanted to welcome you to this board as well.





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