Why would a married man need to do this?

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Registered: 01-09-2004
Why would a married man need to do this?
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Thu, 10-11-2007 - 3:10pm

Why do married men need to look at the breasts of other women who they aren't married to?

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iVillage Member
Registered: 10-17-2002
Thu, 10-11-2007 - 3:18pm

It's not a married man thing.

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Registered: 09-30-2005
Thu, 10-11-2007 - 4:00pm

Welcome to the board aperille,


No, breasts aren't necessarily sexual. They were designed for breast feeding not for sexual pleasure.


Also, most men look at other women. Just as most women will look at other men. It doesn't mean it is in a sexual way. If

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
Thu, 10-11-2007 - 5:09pm

Welcome to the board aperille,


Sorry you are going through this.

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-09-2004
Thu, 10-11-2007 - 5:52pm

Since I don't see him do it, I have to take his word for it.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
Thu, 10-11-2007 - 6:06pm
So he sees a difference between looking (him) and being verbal about it (you) - he's judging one ok but not the other, sounds like a subtle double standard in my opinion.




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Registered: 02-20-2007
Thu, 10-11-2007 - 8:15pm

I'm sorry, but you should learn to let this go. Men will ALWAYS notice breasts. Heck, even women notice breasts. They're just a body part. He's not gawking at other women and he's not trying to cheat no you. He doesn't even think of them sexually. It's just a reaction. Like if someone had a really big nose, you'd notice it.

You simply cannot expect him to walk around with a blindfold on. Treat them like another body part. Let it go, and shrug it off. If it makes you "sick" to think that your husband so much as notices another woman, then that's a big problem you should look into.

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Registered: 10-13-2004
Thu, 10-11-2007 - 8:17pm

With regards to gawking or staring.....sometimes it truly can't be helped.

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Thu, 10-11-2007 - 9:19pm
LOL thanks for sharing




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Registered: 02-20-2007
Thu, 10-11-2007 - 10:16pm
Maybe find a board for only Christians then
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Registered: 10-17-2002
Fri, 10-12-2007 - 11:56am

I'm sorry to hear you feel that way, but this honestly is not a question about morals, Christian or otherwise.

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