Wife makes jokes that make me think she suspects i like men sexually! HELP!

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Registered: 04-12-2012
Wife makes jokes that make me think she suspects i like men sexually! HELP!
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Thu, 04-12-2012 - 6:04am

I have been with my wife for about 9 years now, including dating. We tease eachother alot, but when she teases me..they have homosexual references to them. She will make jokes about co workers of mine, and how she thinks I want to do sexual things with them..the thing is, she plays it off as a joke. Her latest is making a mans voice to me during our love making. Is she just giving me a hard time, or does she suspect something?

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Registered: 09-17-2005

Assuming this is for real... it sounds like your wife is the one who gets aroused by the idea of two men together. And there may be deeper psychological reasons as to why she aroused by that - but I'm no psychologist so I couldn't say for sure. You need to open a line of communication about it - maybe even suggest seeing a therapist together.

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Registered: 05-20-2009

Is there something that she SHOULD suspect?

Have you ever told her that it bothers you?

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Registered: 04-16-2008
I know my H would be furious about this. He would probably yell at me "are you insinuating that I'm gay" Sounds to me like she's disrespecting you and unless there's any truth to what she's saying (and I only say that because of the last sentence in your post) you shouldn't put up with it.
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Registered: 12-22-2007

dude, you need to talk with her about this.

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Registered: 09-14-2007

Maybe SHE has the fantasy of seeing you with a man?