Wife Won't Touch Me Below the Belt
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Wife Won't Touch Me Below the Belt
| Mon, 10-11-2004 - 10:59pm |
Hi Everybody:
My wife just turned 50; she is going thru perimenopause & menopause.
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| Tue, 10-12-2004 - 1:09am |
That sounds pretty normal. Sad but normal. When a womans hormones shut down so does the sex drive. There is medication like estrogen with testosterone that she could take but there are dangers with taking it. Discuss it with her and if she does not want to take it then it will fall upon you to SLOWLY get her in the mood with lots of little kindnesses thru the day. Gently lead her toward wanting to have sex by taking out the garbage, making dinner yourself--vacuming the floor and YES this is foreplay to a woman. Include kisses on the cheek and kind words and she will slowly and surely begin to want to please you. It's not easy for either one of you. They don't call it the "changes" for nothing.
