Will It Ever Get Better?
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| Fri, 03-16-2007 - 4:16pm |
I have been married for almost two years and ever since the beginnig of our marriage I have seen my husband in a completley different way now, a "mommy's boy". He constantly lets his parents get involved in our relationship, doing things that constantly makes us argue and getting me upset, but he never does anything about it. He allows them to be rude and make condensending remarks to me. I found out I was pregnant just one week after our wedding who is now one. The two times my mil kept our daughter she has done mean things to me, like turning off all their phones so that I can not get a hold of them to check on my child, and my husband constantly defends his parents behavior. I will not allow our child to stay with them anymore and he can't understand why. My mil will call up my husband and make him feel guilty about things I can't even explain, because it's insane!!! I feel like every time he talks to her she says bad things about me and making him feel like he has left her and every time he comes home from spending the day with them he treats me like complete s***. I have gotten to the point where I do not even want my inl's a part of my life but I know that they are my husbands parents and will always be there. I have tried to explain to him so many times that I could handle them if HE would just stick up for me instead of ALWAYS being against me. He makes me feel like I am an enemy to him and his parents when I am around them. I don't understand this at all.
During my whole pregnancy my husband did not want anything to do with me once I started to get big, which was by the third month, and I found all of his porn that was keeping him too busy to be with me. It got to the point where he would never touch me or even look at me anymore. I just am at the point where I don't think I can handle this from him and the inl's and really don't know what to do. Will he ever change and grow up or always be their little baby boy taking comands from them? What makes it real hard for me is not being able to talk to him about any of this. He gets defensive over it and tells me that I am being a B**** and his parents are just "expressing their oppinions". But all hell brakes loose if the situation was reversed on them and suddenly my mil acts like a victim crying to everyone. I just don't know what to do. I am married to a mommys boy who has insane parents. Will it ever get better?

Welcome to the board jammytime,
I don't see this getting any better until he learns to stand up to his parents. Maybe you should call up his mother and ask her out to lunch and then ask her why she doesn't like you and if there is anything the two of you can do to make your relationship better.
Does your husband still look at porn instead of having sex with you?
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