A Woman Honest Opinion

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A Woman Honest Opinion
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Wed, 12-05-2007 - 10:30am
What most men think a woman finds sexy and appealing in a man is probably entirely different from what she really thinks.

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Registered: 12-04-2007
Wed, 12-05-2007 - 11:18am
I find it very appealing if a guy dresses very well. His clothes don't have to be expensive, just current an well coordinated. A guy that knows what looks good on him. On the physical aspect, beautiful eyes are nice.
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Registered: 12-11-2006
Wed, 12-05-2007 - 11:57am
A man with a good sense of humor (not bathroom or sexist humor) is a big turn on.
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Registered: 08-21-2007
Wed, 12-05-2007 - 12:18pm

That depends on every single woman on this planet. What is gorgeous to me may be vile to the next woman. It depends on the age group as well. What was sexy to me at 20 is not what it was at 30 etc etc etc.


My own list:


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Registered: 01-12-2005
Wed, 12-05-2007 - 1:25pm

Even several years ago, I was attracted first to a man's looks: tall, blond, blue or green eyes, nice build (more from working than from working out, KWIM?), square jaw., etc.


Now, the thing I zero in on is the way a man carries himself.

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Registered: 02-20-2007
Wed, 12-05-2007 - 1:44pm

Of course I can only speak for myself so here goes. I'm going to be really honest.

Physically I like someone who is taller than me, not terribly overweight but I don't mind some extra pounds if he's not fit. I like guys with dark features most of the time but I've got to tell you that right now I have a huge crush on a guy with blonde hair and blue eyes.

The thing is though, I would never give my number to a guy just because of the way he looks. I tend to prefer shy guys; men who aren't cocky or trying to approach every woman possible. I love someone with a very GENUINE personality and genuine sense of humor, making an effort to impress me doesn't work. I want to see your true colors right away. I am definitely a guy's girl, I'm interested in your interests - I love to play video games or watch sports with a boyfriend. Bad boys don't interest me. I want someone cute, sweet, funny, and sincere. I don't care if you have a nice butt because I'm not looking there, just be down to earth and express yourself intelligently and you've caught my interest already. I also tend to go out with guys who are acquaintances or friends first, not some random guy at a bar. Personality means so much more than looks.

hope that gave you a good idea, of course we're all different but I tried to be as honest as possible based on my own personal experience.

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Registered: 06-04-2007
Wed, 12-05-2007 - 2:18pm

Smart, Witty, Funny, Caring -- Are sexy personality to me.

Dark complexion, beautiful smile, Fit (body like runners type not like body builder) and a nice cute booty. ;)

those are just my preferences.

ukia

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Registered: 11-25-2007
Thu, 12-06-2007 - 8:44pm
Most people will look at a guy and say that he's attractive or sexy, etc..... but honestly, for me,
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Registered: 10-31-2007
Fri, 12-07-2007 - 6:04pm
A woman wants a man that is honest, polite, funny, outgoing, secure with themselves and responsible. Honestly, if a guy has all those traits and isn't the most attractive, I could care less. I would rather have a man that I know I will be happy with and that will treat me good, than a hottie who has a sucky personality and morals.
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Registered: 12-08-2007
Sat, 12-08-2007 - 4:06pm
what i find sexy in a man is someone that is there to listen.
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Registered: 12-12-2005
Sat, 12-08-2007 - 7:19pm
Confidence (definitely not needy - you have your own things going on), fiscally prudent (save some, spend some; have goals and a plan that gets you there) and at the same time...make me feel like I'm the center of your universe without

 

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