Won't Come to my house....
Find a Conversation
Won't Come to my house....
| Mon, 07-05-2004 - 8:42pm |
My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 2 years. We went to college together and he graduated, I am still working towards a degree because I am 2 years younger. During the summer, we like to see each other on a regular basis, but I am always going to his house and he NEVER comes to mine. I think he has been here twice. I must drive there once a week, maybe more and it's getting out of hand. I want to say something, but I am not sure how to approach the situation and we rarely fight so I don't want to start anything. I keep thinking if he really loved me he would come, but then I am afraid to know his answer. I'm stuck between saying how I feel or getting taken advantage ofor losing him over something like driving. I know it may sound like nothing compared to other problems, but I am hoping someone can help. Thanks.

And speaking of getting upset, if you don't mention this it's likely to fester in you until the anger becomes overwhelming and you're completely angry at him.
Finally, I dated a guy who never came to my apartment -- it turned out he was just lazy, which was telling on many levels of our relationship. In our case it meant he was only interested in our relationship if he didn't have to do any work...so we broke up eventually. But, I'd not have figured that out without asking.
Elmira
My boyfriend RARELY came over to my house.
When I finally got up the nerve and
asked him why, he said it was because
I never invited him!
I didn't know it was as simple as that.
Maybe you should try inviting him over
for dinner or a movie etc.
Good luck, I hope it all works out for you.
-Renelou