world turned upside down

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Registered: 12-02-2005
world turned upside down
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Tue, 03-13-2007 - 1:48pm
I have posted this on the porn boards as well, but thought I would give it a shot here as well. found out my s/o is looking at gay porn. He said he had an episode several years ago when his bi-polar, which is something I didnt even know about, acted up. We have a good life in every other way I lost my mom in december and while I was gone I guess he started it back up. Im numb right now. He says he wants to work it out with me, but I am at a loss for words right now. I need help please... susie
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Registered: 02-05-2007
Tue, 03-13-2007 - 1:56pm

Hi mom_tazzy and welcome to the board.

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Registered: 12-02-2005
Tue, 03-13-2007 - 2:09pm
thank you. He said that he would do what ever he had to do. We have been through alot together, nothing bad really except loosing my mom, but financially and we have worked togehter to make it work. I hope it will..
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Registered: 09-30-2005
Tue, 03-13-2007 - 3:16pm
Are you more worried about the porn or the fact that he was gay porn? Do you or he think he might be gay?
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Registered: 12-02-2005
Tue, 03-13-2007 - 3:32pm
Neither one appeals to me, however I am more concerned with the gay porn. He has never shown any signs of being gay since I have known him, Like I said a few years ago he said that he had looked at it then. Im worried that if he is, he needs to be honest with himself, he would be happier.I also found live sex shows etc.. although when you go to open them, it doesnt, so I dont know what was on those. BUt this is just a side of him that one I have never seen, and two I never thought that I would. susie
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Registered: 09-30-2005
Tue, 03-13-2007 - 3:38pm
I think it would be best if he went to individual counseling to work on this. That way