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Worth pursuing?
| Sun, 06-13-2004 - 11:46pm |
i've been seeing my guy for about six weeks. things were going great until recently. he's affectionate, caring and sweet. however, i found out that he feels somewhat differently about me than i originally thought. he told me that he's introduced me to his friends as his "girlfriend" and he feels like i'm his gf, but our relationship is different than others in the past, mind you his longest relationship has only been 8 months. he said that he doesn't feel the same spark with me as he does with people he's dated in the past. he's also said he's a hopeless romantic. however, he hasn't dated anyone seriously for 5 years, and the other relationships were mostly in college or directly after college. he says that he still likes me and likes me more the longer that we hang out. but, i can't help but let his comments affect the way i feel and probably will interact with him. i don't know if this is worth pursuing or just letting go. i really care about him and would like to try to make it work but feel as if i might try too hard to make him feel that "spark." is it b/c this is his first serious adult relationship since college or more than that? any advice would be appreciated.
jma
jma
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| Mon, 06-14-2004 - 7:59am |
Well considering you have only been together 6 weeks, I think you should give it some time. As long as you want it to work. Maybe like you said he hasn't really been in a real relationship before, just give it some time and see how it goes. And don't try to do anything "extra" just be yourself. If he doesn't feel the same way in a couple months then go.Just make sure that the relationship is moving forward. Good luck Jessica
