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| Thu, 05-10-2007 - 10:13pm |
Often, when my bf and I get out of the car to walk into someplace, he will start walking and not wait for me to catch up. When I complain about him walking in front of me he says I walk too slow and he just can't walk that slowly (He is considerably taller then I am). But he is really not walking any faster than I am--just a few feet ahead. He walks in the door ahead of me and often continues to walk in front of me unless I catch up to him.
I feel this is a sign of disrespect. When I complain about it he will do better for a while, but eventually he'll start doing it again. He also will make a sarcastic remark about not waiting on me when we are in a situation where it is obviously not practical (like if he's carrying something heavy).
What do you all think?

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Welcome to the board lani57,
Does he do anything else disrespectful towards you?
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"He is not usually disrespectful of me in other ways, but in arguments has spoken to me in a disrespectul manner and seems to have a general disrespect toward women. He refers to women in derragatory terms much of the time."
RED FLAG! RED FLAG!
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Hi lani57,
::He is not usually disrespectful of me in other ways, but in arguments has spoken to me in a disrespectul manner and seems to have a general disrespect toward women. He refers to women in derragatory terms much of the time."
Can I say 'HOLY COW?'
And he walks ahead of you and he's sarcastic.
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It really doesn't matter how it would make me feel, or anyone else. How does it make you feel? You are the person in the relationship who is experiencing this. If you don't like it, if it makes you feel disrespected or not considered, then let him know again. If
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