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| Sun, 02-22-2004 - 10:59pm |
Another thing that's stuck in my mind is that we had discussed at various times our past relationships. No details or anything, but the length and why they ended. His last girlfriend had broken up with him on Christmas eve of last year (02) and he stated that it crushed him. Now, on one hand this tells me that he does have it in him to love someone and that he isn't made of stone emotionally like he acts towards me sometimes. But on the other hand it makes me question what we have -- as in, maybe he doesn't feel that strongly about me. I do go off of his behaviors with me though--like always doing things with me, including me with his friends and family, and always talking about the future and making plans with me included.
I know that i should be talking to him about all of this, i just wanted to get some advice from others' experiences first. What are some of your experiences with men that don't communicate any feelings of intamacy and act like a brick wall in that department? Also, i know i have to seriously work on my own issues with it too--i don't want it to seem like i'm blaming him or anything. Thanks in advance.

Carrie