Would you consider this cheating?

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-27-2008
Would you consider this cheating?
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Thu, 10-06-2011 - 7:45pm

I have been with my BF for 8 months and we're living together now.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-05-2010
Fri, 10-07-2011 - 10:27am
fissatore wrote:

Did you tell your b/f about it?

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-20-2009
Thu, 10-06-2011 - 11:54pm

Did you tell your b/f about it?

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-22-2007
Thu, 10-06-2011 - 9:58pm

I think if you can do it openly and honestly, then it's not cheating.

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-16-2008
Thu, 10-06-2011 - 9:23pm

To answer your question, having lunch with a former FWB is not cheating.

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-16-2008
Thu, 10-06-2011 - 8:46pm

If you have to HIDE anything from your BF or H you know your doing something shady. Then again why hide anything IF there's nothing shady behind it? If you know your BF would get hurt or angry over this then why go and do this behind his back anyway?

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-24-2009
Thu, 10-06-2011 - 7:58pm

What is the purpose of the lunch with your FWB? I personally would say its not a good idea and if your BF found out about it a.) he wouldn't trust you since you lied to him about it and b.) He doesn't know that you "just" had lunch, his imagination will run wild.