Wow...what happened??

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Registered: 08-03-2005
Wow...what happened??
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Wed, 11-05-2008 - 12:35pm
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Registered: 02-05-2007
Wed, 11-05-2008 - 2:02pm

Welcome to the board molly311,


If you don't believe him and keep asking him, you will push him away. It's so much easier to back off a little, go have fun with your friends, etc. and allow him the time he's asking for.


::but sort of weirded out that one fight would throw him off like this.


That's all it takes.

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Registered: 08-30-2008
Wed, 11-05-2008 - 7:07pm

It sounds like he may be a tad more sensitive than you thought to teasing and poking fun at him.


It also sounds like he needs a long time to recover from something like that.


What you did wasnt a big betrayal so for him to start to think that maybe a relationship is not for him...may definitely be a red flag that he is not ready for a relationship.

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Registered: 05-11-2008
Thu, 11-06-2008 - 8:03am

So he's already feeling down because he thinks (right or wrong?) that he has to do the planning for his group of friends to do anything; he is helping his friend make a costume; he has everyone at his house drinking his drinks; and then

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Registered: 07-29-2002
Thu, 11-06-2008 - 9:47am

You mentioned that he was frustrated with being the one everyone relies on to make plans, host,

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