wrong love

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-19-2007
wrong love
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Fri, 10-19-2007 - 11:44pm

hello everyone; I'm new to this, and I wouldn't normally do this, but I have to vent.


My situation is really simple, I fell for the wrong person. It all started last year, I was taking an English lit

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Registered: 08-21-2005
Sat, 10-20-2007 - 7:35am

I think the age gap is way too big. A 13-yr age gap when you are only 19 is huge. You are at different stages of life and if this relationship were to workout I think you'd regret it when you are older.

He doesn't sound interested in pursuing a relationship, so why ruin the friendship you have. Keep him as friend and as a mentor, but romantically look somewhere else.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-05-2007
Sat, 10-20-2007 - 10:12am

That age difference that doesn't matter today will in 20 years, trust me.

It is not enough to have a good mind.  The main thing is to use it well.-- Rene Descartes

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Sat, 10-20-2007 - 5:56pm

Welcome to the board marie_lmbale8889,


Even though it's the wrong love and there's an age difference, or even one-sided, parting is hard.