xgrlfriend/now friend staying night?
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xgrlfriend/now friend staying night?
| Tue, 05-18-2004 - 9:51pm |
my boyfriend (who lives 75 miles away) of 4 months told me his friend (he onced dated about 3 or 4 years ago or longer) was coming to visit...and she didnt want to cause any problems with us---she is planning on staying at his house with her son...my boyfriend told her I was pretty cool about things like that (i asked about sleeping arrangements and he said she would be sleeping in his sons room..) ..... but I think that is disrepectful of my feelings...what is a girl to do??? He had told me he isnt ready for a serious relationship.. and we have not told each other we love each other.. but are intimate... To me he wants his cake and eat it to.... We have had the talk about dating other people and we both decided we didnt want to do that..but to take things slow...he is starting his own business and says he wasnt to focus on that now... Any suggestion on how to approach this.. I have something planned for sat and dont know that I will even see him over the weekend that she would be here.... Should I tell him I am not totally comfortable with her staying there and see what kind of judgement he makes..and that will tell me where I stand... please help!!

If you choose to make this a manipulative test of him, his feelings towards you and to see if he will prioritize your feelings above everything else, then that is not only disrespectful of his feelings but also disrepectful of him as a person.