y does he keep doing this????? :(

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Registered: 03-16-2005
y does he keep doing this????? :(
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Mon, 10-22-2007 - 2:42pm

okay my fince and i have sex lik once a week. wish it was more really. my sex drive is very high and i know his is to but everythime i ask him he says he dont know what it is, but everytime i go in the bath room to change the trash can i find condoms int he trask can and i ask him and he siad he uses them to masturbate. and that makes me feel horrible, because it makes me feel lik i aint doing something right. i mean come on he has me right next to him everynight and want even touch me, but one day a week, it lik he rather masturbation over me or somehing and i hate that and it makes me feel uncomfortable. I have told him this and keep saying he gone stop but never does........ one more thing he lies like alot and if i found out somehting and he did wrong and confronted him about it but he still denies that he did it? what do i do?????? because i told him i new and he just keep saying "thats not ttrue"


what should i do???????


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Registered: 09-30-2005
Mon, 10-22-2007 - 2:51pm

Welcome to the board bonnieandclyde0212,


The masturbating with a condom on seems a little fishy to me. I am sure guys do that, but I don't think it is very common.


Has your sex life changed or has it always been like this?


Do you really want to marry someone who would rather masturbate than have sex with you and you continually lies to you?

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Mon, 10-22-2007 - 3:25pm

Hi bonnieandclyde0212,


Here's your previous post for review and for others to catch up on your story:


x byfiend I jus got bac 2get now what!


If masturbation has replaced sex in your relationship, something is really wrong.

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Registered: 10-09-2007
Mon, 10-22-2007 - 7:40pm

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