The Yo-Yo Connection
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| Thu, 09-16-2004 - 4:43pm |
He actively flirts but has been honest that he's gone out with a couple of girls since I've been back in the picture~one before me that ended and now a new one but not serious yet, therefore the heavy flirting confuses me! He's not making any attempt to get closer at this point than just via email, which he always initiates. My question is this: with his admission that there's now something different do I just chill and keep being chat buddy to allow it to develop or do I bail because if it's not there, it's not there and never will be and why go on the yo-yo path again?
Side note: In the past I was guilty of overreacting to the point of asking where/what/how things are going and not being able to just relax and see where it goes. Also, I've made a personal commitment NOT to get physical until it becomes something warranting it.
