you can never be too sure..

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Registered: 07-19-2008
you can never be too sure..
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Sun, 07-20-2008 - 4:53pm
i recently started seeing this guy who is 4 years younger to me..its been a month
and initially the guy seemed the epitome of sweetness but lately he has expressed a wish to
meet my other friends and spend time with them like may be even solo time and he did so very ardently and that he is not interested in talking too much to my male buddies.What in your estimation should i make out of this scenario? thank you ever more for your kind advice...
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Registered: 02-20-2007
Sun, 07-20-2008 - 6:13pm
After a month of dating he's expressed that he would like you hang out with your female friends alone? That's extremely weird, I'd be wary of such a request.
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Registered: 05-24-2008
Sun, 07-20-2008 - 9:44pm
This sounds rather odd...have you asked him to elaborate as to why he wants to spend time alone with your girl friends?
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Registered: 07-20-2008
Sun, 07-20-2008 - 10:03pm

Sounds like he has a definite agenda in mind and it sounds fishy. If he was interested in a true relationship with you, he'd have no need to meet your female only friends and spend alone time with them. If he was interested in a relationship he would meet your friends (both male and female)

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Registered: 07-19-2008
Mon, 07-21-2008 - 12:01am
It sounds to me like he may have alterior motives? Or maybe he's got a friend that he wants to hook up with one of your friends? Even if that were the case I couldn't see why he'd ask you for alone time with your girl friends. That sounds quite odd. Have you approached him about this or asked why that would be necessary??
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Registered: 07-17-2008
Mon, 07-21-2008 - 1:59am
I would leave this guy alone.He seems to want to go thru you to get to the one he is truly interested in.
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Registered: 07-19-2008
Mon, 07-21-2008 - 11:48am
You guys are so sweet thank you all for your kind advice..I had a row with him on this peculiarity of behavior and demand only to be told that he was just pulling my leg and that he never intended to spend time with anyone since he had me..But when he said stuff like i want to love you i said oh! well let me mark that on my checklist and please tell me what kind of a girl would you require for that? Then he said i am dying to kiss you! and i quipped well that would mean that you require another girl..so on and so forth but in the end he said sorry and said it was just a joke thats all.What do you guys make off that reply? Does it smell fish? or just good old candid humor? Thank you Guys!
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Registered: 02-05-2007
Mon, 07-21-2008 - 1:12pm

Welcome to the board amberqureshi,


Some jokes just aren't funny.