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| Thu, 12-27-2012 - 8:31pm |
I used to be a frequent visitor of iVillage way back in time, probably 8 years ago or so. I pop in and lurk from time to time but with my current life it's not often.
Anyway, I am a woman married to a man and we have a young son. I've known since about 1st grade that I like women but I never once acted upon it before I was married. I messed around with a lot of men but always found it to be awkward to meet men and moreso to meet a woman. I am having feelings of "what if this wasn't supposed to be" and just in general not in love with my DH right now. I love him as my son's father but I can't muster even the slightest feeling to even enjoy sex with him. I've been feeling for a while that I should be experimenting with a woman but I am a devout monogomous person and cheating is my worst enemy in my mind. So, do I continue to explore those feelings or just drop them and settle for a sexless life with DH? I take care of him, of course but when it comes to me...it's just not "doing it" for me.
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Suggest a threesome with him. At least that way if he agrees it's not a cheating environment and it will allow you to experiment to see if it's what you prefer. Ending a marriage is never an easy thing to do. If you truly aren't in love with him, as you say. then you need to end it and then possibly explore on your own. You don't have to enter into a relationship right away obviously but then you don't have to worry about the "cheating". And btw, a threesome is not cheating when you are both involved...only if one of you continues the relationship outside of the 3 without the other paerson knowing. You never know. It may be just what you want. If not, at least you tried. Ask him. He may be up for it but if not tell him how you feel. Good luck!
That is a definite option I've thought about. We just barely have time with alone adult time with no babysitter. I am truly hoping something goes our way soon to allow us to have more couple time!