Does this mean I'm bi?

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Does this mean I'm bi?
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Thu, 03-27-2003 - 5:08am
I'm a 19 year old girl and I've been sexually active for several years, but for a couple of years I've wanted to see what its like to be with another girl and a few weeks ago I got to know another girl and we've been together and although its a lot different from being with a guy I really like the feel of another girls skin against mine, and I really like the stuff we do together. I'm 15 weeks pregnant though and I saw somewhere that you shouldn't use sex toys when you're pg. Is this true?
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Thu, 03-27-2003 - 7:51am
About the sex toys during pregnancy, I am sure you can use clitoral stimulators and such... I don't know about inserting anything, but since sex during pregnancy is okay (unless your dr advises otherwise) I would think that sex toys would be alright... if you are worried, just call your OB and ask him/her, I am sure that they would be happy to tell you.

I believe that sexual curiousity about same sex is totally normal for straight girls... but how you are reacting to being with this girl seems like more then just curiousity. Some soul searching will tell you whether you are bi-curious or really bi!

Congratulations on the pregnancy!

Leigh

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Thu, 03-27-2003 - 11:12pm
Welcome Promgurl!!!!


I agree, If you have any questions about using 'toys' I would ask your OBGYN. Given the fact that sex is ok during pg I don't see that this is any different. *giggle*


Whether you are bisexual or not is only something you can answer for yourself. If you would like MY opinion, it would seem that you are. The whole idea of being bisexual is that you are attracted to members of both sexes and enjoy 'relations' with both. ;)


Welcome to our home away from home! Hope you stick around and get to know us! We love to see new 'faces'.


Cheers, Trin

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Sat, 03-29-2003 - 3:01am
I too have the question "Am I bi-sexual"? I am 37 years old, divorced with 2 children, yet have always had an attraction to women as well as men. I have had a couple of 'encounters' with women I really enjoyed and one that wasn't so good. I often fantasize about being with a woman or with a man and a woman. When I have watched porn movies, the parts I like the most involve women with women. After several disasterous relationships with men, I feel like another woman would be a better, more understanding partner. However, being that I have little experience(very little) with how to meet a woman with the same interest, I can't seem to find a relationship with a woman to see if it is what I want. The encounters I had, I really liked a woman's kiss and feel of her body, but how do I find someone to meet, get to know, to see if it's what I want? I have plenty of experience with meeting males but I don't know the "rules" of finding a lesbian or bi woman. Also, I am in the process of trying to loose weight and don't have a lot of confidence that a woman(or man) would be physically attracted to me. I not grossly overweight but am alot bigger than I am comfortable with. If anyone can help, I really appreciate some advice here.
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Sat, 03-29-2003 - 4:53am
JBABY...

You may want to post your message as it's own thread (start a new thread). It may get lost here, and I bet there are some that could respond and help you out.

Good luck!

Crys

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Sat, 03-29-2003 - 12:37pm
Thanks, Crystal, I will start a new thread. This is the first post I have done, so I wasn't sure how to do it.

Jbaby

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Sun, 03-30-2003 - 4:15pm
Here is a sure-fire test to see if you are bi or not! Just hit the link below and tell me if you find this image attractive or not. If you think this is a very nice pic indeed and find yourself stareing at it, then you must be bi. If you turn away in disgust and just want to puke, then you are not bi! Simply as one two three!!! Give it a whirl and share the results with us all love. We are always interested if we have been of any service to any one here or not. kwim?

http://www.allposters.com/getthumb.asp?c=a&Search=Chalkin%2C+Tanya

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Mon, 03-31-2003 - 11:08am
This is such a nice picture!!!!!
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Mon, 03-31-2003 - 1:29pm
I liked this pic so much, had to buy it and hang it up in my bedroom. My kids have mixed feelings to the hanging up of this poster in my room, though seems like all of their friends seem to come on back at my kids prodding to give their input on what they think.......Everyone likes it so far! What's not to like? :-)