What a horrendous mistake

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Registered: 02-13-2010
What a horrendous mistake
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Tue, 04-16-2013 - 4:23pm
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Registered: 11-13-2008
Thu, 04-18-2013 - 1:43pm

I'm so sorry :(  That is just awful, did you contact the police about the assault?  You need to be documenting everything, all contact that you have with her.   You should also block all her texts, even changing your number if you have to.  Is there anyone that can stay with you for awhile, or anywhere you can go to get away from her?

Sending you lots of (((HUGS))).  

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Registered: 02-13-2010
Thu, 04-18-2013 - 5:12pm

No I didn't contact the police about the assault as felt it would be impossible to prove. I did chat with a friend of mine who is a cop who advised that I keep everything as evidence which I have done. I have blocked her from Facebook and if she contacts me again via text or email I'm just not going to respond whatever the content. I kept her email in my safe senders list rather than blocking her as if she sends anything offensive I want to know about it so that I can report it. I asked her to not make any more contact with me and so far she hasn't. I saw her outside my place the other day and she just blanked me. I'm hoping she'll back off now.

What an awful experience and this is the first time I have ever tried 'dating' a woman. At least she showed her true colors straight away I suppose.

CB x