Can I every actually like it??

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-22-2006
Can I every actually like it??
10
Thu, 08-07-2008 - 1:58pm

Hi all.. I am new to this board, but am glad I found it.

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-04-2007
Thu, 08-07-2008 - 2:55pm

Don't feel bad asking for a shower, if he wants it to happen, he should be making it pleasent for you to be there. You aren't asking for anything complicated like ribbons & flowers.


Use more than just your mouth. Get your hands in there, either just your hands & give your mouth a break, or put your mouth on the tip & handle the rest. Switch it up, keep him guessing.


Does he really need to finish in your mouth? If it's ruining it for you, it seems too much to ask for every time. Could he be happy with coming somewhere else? Would you be cool with that? It washes right off. Or how about BJ as foreplay, not finishing?


I think you're too worried about the end to concentrate on the process. If you weren't worried about where he's going to cum, or how long it's going to go on, would it help? Work up to doing it longer or to the finish, once you feel better about doing it. Everybody gives a little & everybody wins. (If he never gets to finish it'll become a fixation, so I wouldn't suggest never getting to that point.)


Good distraction frees us from emotional pain, bad distraction gives you a mouth full of whizz. ~~~ Guru Tugginmypudha
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-06-2007
Thu, 08-07-2008 - 4:39pm

Welcome to the Oral Board Dakiya :)


Does your husband mind taking a shower to freshen up for you prior to giving him oral?

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-04-2007
Thu, 08-07-2008 - 6:08pm

Nothing wrong with asking for a shower.

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-30-2000
Fri, 08-08-2008 - 4:27pm

Asking him to be clean isn't much to ask...

Once you've got him 'wet down', wrap your hand around him just in front of your mouth and slide it along as you go. The pressure and friction should help get him over the top. Or you could just take in the head and pump him manually.

To be honest, if he sees you're not into it, it's probably not going to be as good for him and make it take longer for you. As far as the finish, if you're using your hand, you can probably take your mouth away and finish him manually and his sensation shouldn't be that much less. Maybe you take a taste with your finger from wherever he cums and see if you can get used to it in small doses and work up from that. Maybe you back off and just keep the head in your mouth as you pump him to completion with your hand so he's less likely to trigger your gag reflex? If you can let your desire to please him show through it will probably excite him enough to finish him off quicker...

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-24-2008
Fri, 08-08-2008 - 11:10pm

Yes you could like it if it didnt feel like a chore to you.

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-22-2006
Sun, 08-10-2008 - 10:06pm

I just wanted to say thank you to everyone who responded.

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-06-2007
Mon, 08-11-2008 - 11:04am

You're more then welcome :)

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-24-2008
Mon, 08-11-2008 - 2:18pm

Letting the ejaculate flow back down onto his penis and your hands really does help if you have a gag problem.

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-30-2000
Tue, 08-12-2008 - 10:54am
Glad to hear things went better. Possible suggestion: apparently some dentists use the over-the-counter "snore-stopper" sprays to help their patients with bad gag-reflex problems. Since DW has complained about my snoring, I've tried at least one of those (Breathe Right) and the taste isn't that strong. Might that be something to try? Good luck!
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-26-2007
Wed, 08-13-2008 - 11:13pm

Ok if you dont like the taste or the smell maybe you should try to buy some of the flavored oils and lubes that they make just for that. It might take you a while to find a flavor that you like because some of them are very strong. I enjoy it because i know my man does, he tells me that im the best. When i first started giving BJ'S i had to use that flavored stuff because of the same reason then i