Cunillingus Technique

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Registered: 02-20-2009
Cunillingus Technique
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Wed, 04-21-2010 - 10:55am

Thank you for the sage lessons and wisdom from our

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Registered: 03-06-2007
Wed, 04-21-2010 - 12:23pm

Here ya go Ma :)


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Cleanliness Before Cunnilingus

Oral sex brings together two very important parts of your bodies: her genital area and your mouth. As such it's important that both areas are clean. For yourself, ensure that your nails are cut, your hands are clean, you've shaved your stubble and have brushed your teeth. As for her, if you have any concerns regarding hygiene, then the best way to go about this is to ask her to get into the shower with you! It's a great way to start engaging in foreplay; plus, you get to bathe and clean each other.



  • Step 2

    Speaking Of Foreplay

    A lot of men don't want to just dive in there and perform oral sex. Guess what? Most women don't like that either so take your time and tease and play and sexually stimulate each other first. This will put you both the right sexual frame of mind, not to mention, make her really wet.



  • Step 3

    Know The Landscape

    It helps if you know a bit about female anatomy. Not only will this enable you to pleasure her most but will prevent you from accidentally hurting her too. However, keep in mind that there is no magic formula either as each woman's body is different. So the best thing to do is to start slow.



  • Step 4

    Oral Sex 101

    Kiss her lips down there as you would kiss her on the mouth. Using your hands, part her vaginal lips. Make your tongue just a bit rigid and then run it tongue up and down the length of her. Some women like tight, slow strokes. Others want, wet, sloppy licks. Pay close attention to your partner's body movements and the sounds she's making to know what movements she likes best.



  • Step 5

    How To Stimulate The Clitoris

    A lot of women like their clitorises stimulated via the 'clitoral hood', a fold of skin that hovers over the clitoris; others prefer direct stimulation. Again, pay attention to her body to know what works best.



  • Step 6

    A Bit Of Penetration Helps

    Penetration need not mean intercourse using your manhood. You can penetrate her using your fingers, by rolling your tongue like a tube or cylinder and using that, or even using a sex toy or aid.








  • Tips & Warnings




    • Apply different textures, pressures and movements to know which ones work best.



    • Be patient. Sometimes, it takes quite a while before a woman is stimulated to the point that she reaches a climax. If your jaw or tongue gets tired, switch to gentle kissing, using your fingers or using a sex toy as you rest.



    • Here's a very important tip: if she starts groaning or grinding or anything that tells you that you're doing something right, don't stop or change movements. Just continue exactly what you're doing and you'll be rewarded.


    iVillage Member
    Registered: 02-20-2009
    Wed, 04-21-2010 - 1:28pm

    I'll have to try all of it.....thank you....again.....a 1000 thank you's....


    iVillage Member
    Registered: 03-06-2007
    Wed, 04-21-2010 - 2:01pm
    You're more than welcome, but why do I

    iVillage Member
    Registered: 02-20-2009
    Wed, 04-21-2010 - 2:05pm

    My my my......I'm just a very curious lad....and.....I'm always on the hunt for......knowledge................


    iVillage Member
    Registered: 03-06-2007
    Wed, 04-21-2010 - 2:52pm
    I agree you can never have too much knowledge, experience and tricks up your sleeve :)


    iVillage Member
    Registered: 02-20-2009
    Wed, 04-21-2010 - 2:57pm

    I do enjoy a little hocus pocus at times.....I bet a rabbit would be wonderful using the techniques you posted earlier.....


    iVillage Member
    Registered: 03-06-2007
    Wed, 04-21-2010 - 3:14pm
    Oh I'm sure a little magic touch with the rabbit would just put it over the top ......


    iVillage Member
    Registered: 02-20-2009
    Wed, 04-21-2010 - 3:46pm

    Nice touch....magic.....slight of hand....smoke and mirrors.....this might be kinda fun.....


    iVillage Member
    Registered: 02-20-2009
    Wed, 04-21-2010 - 3:52pm

    One more question from the throng....what do you think about pubic hair...around the vagina....would you...I mean as the CL....what do you prefer....smooth....a little bush....or..............what...........


    iVillage Member
    Registered: 03-06-2007
    Wed, 04-21-2010 - 4:12pm
    Isn't it always suppose to be fun ? ;)


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